Need, Want

From a book, I find that things are simple, we are the one who is making things complicated, sometimes we get lost in life and usually it's because we think too much... it's not what we face everyday that is scary and making us lost in our own world, it's the way we process those things...


Things might not go as smooth as we want it to be but those are just cuts and bruises to achieve something we need... We tend to think what is important to us, but the truth is...we don't think bout that, we know it.... There is a lot of things that we just know, we don't think, we know... we know that important things is not what we want but what we need....Sometimes..ppl know that they are trap inside somewhere in their own mind but they don't know the way to come out...but the truth is...they do...


When we study, we know that in order to have a future, we should study hard, this is where the attention should be placed but we give ourself the excuses saying that there is so much distraction and so hard to focus, well...things like that do happen but as long as we know what we need instead of putting too much thinking on what we want or who we are, we are back on track again... in my opinion... in order to live, we must first learn how to survive... It's not like what we want is not important but what we need must come first... It's not about becoming who u want to be, but need to be first... Everybody wants the same thing, happiness, some thinks money makes them happy, some say love but in the end, we just want to be happy... To have that, we must learn how to survive first... nobody says we can't have both at the same time...(but lets not get too greedy first)


Reality is hard because we tend to forget what we need to do and turn to what we want... and then everything become so complicated because what we want is contra to what we need (we know it)...and then our life started to drift and we started to fall apart... when we do fall apart, all we can think of is what we want to do but not we need to do... We dnt want to give up in tought situation but we don't know what we need to do to make things right again because we are so trap inside of what we want untill we forget what we want either, that is the time where u forget where and when did u get lost...that is the time where I know for sure, it's time to get back on ur feet and think of reality...


We might try to find something, someone or anything that we just want to label it as important because we think that these is what makes u urself or will make u happy but the truth is, what makes u the u today is u... u are always u...just maybe a you that is floating or drifting but that is still u... U are happy when u get what u want but first u must balance that to the opstical call "what u need"....There is nothing wrong of wanting things, this is in our nature to do so...but the secret here is not forgetting what we need... as long as we can find that balance, we will find that things are easier than what we aspected...
Don't think this "It's easy for u to say" because if u think something is hard without even think or try it out first, even the easiest things became hard...I am still learning and always will, I am the same as all of you, trying to find the correct path if there is one.... I am not saying that it is easy to maintain and find balance in things but now that I have given u the reason u drift... maybe it's time for u to find ur own unique way of taking all this in and find that balance urself...


We are all the same but we are all different as well, we don't have to try to be unique because we are unique... some ppl always say that "I dnt care what other ppl think about me" but... they do care, otherwise they won't be telling ppl that they don't, by doing that, they are actually seeking approval, looking for someone to tell them that it's fine or cool to not care, but I do agree that doing something different or making differences do need some courage.

sometimes on somethings, changes is needed and it's right to do so....I'll give u that... we are all born to c the world in a certain way...it's in our gene but we are not bound to follow it, if not following the "law" that was followed by everyone feels right and it's not hurting anyone else and that's fine with me... As I said, changes do need courage... alot of it...but we will get throught it somehow... we are all survivors...